Controlling Your Reactions Print

Pastor David Koop 

Meekness is an often misunderstood and overlooked quality of those who rule in life.

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"Happy are the meek, for they will inherit the earth." Matthew 5:5

What meekness is NOT: ____________________________________________________________

What meekness IS _____________________________________________

When do I need to control my reactions?

  1. When someone serves you ...
    Be _________________, not __________________.

    "Don't just think about your own affairs, but be interested in others too, and in what they are doing. Your attitude should be the same as Jesus Christ's." Philippians 2:4-5

  2. When someone disappoints you ...
    Be ________________, not _________________.

    "Accept him whose faith is weak, without passing judgment on disputable matters." Romans 14: 1

    "If a person is trapped in some sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. Carry each other's burdens." Galatians 6: 1-2

  3. When someone disagrees with you ...
    Be ________________, not _________________.

    "A gentle answer quiets anger but a harsh word stirs it up." Proverbs 15: 1

    "Wherever there is jealousy or selfish ambition, there will be disorder ... But wisdom from above is pure, powerful, gentle, and friendly." James 3: 16-17

    "The Lord's servant must not quarrel ... those who oppose him he must gently instruct, in hope that God will give them a change of heart ..." 2 Timothy 2: 24-25

    An argumentative spirit indicates an ________ problem.

  4. When someone corrects you ...
    Be _______________, not _________________.

    "Let everyone be quick to listen, but slow to use his tongue, and slow to lose his temper." James 1: 19

  5. When someone hurts you ...
    Be the one to ____________, not _____________.

    What not to do when you are hurt:
    Don’t  ______________________
    Don’t  ______________________
    Don’t  ______________________
    Don’t  ______________________
    Don’t  ______________________

Your emotions are either controlled by ________________ or by ________________.   It's your choice.

"Do not repay evil for evil ... overcome evil with good." Romans 12: 17, 21

"He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his own spirit, than he who captures a city." Proverbs 16: 32

"God's Spirit does not make us timid, instead his Spirit fills us with power, love, and self-control." 2 Timothy 1: 7